//UP YOUR BOUNDARY GAME//
Making clear and loving boundaries is one of the most compassionate things we can do.
It means showing up in love for yourself AND for the other.
Whether that "other" is a bad habit, a close friend or an annoying coworker, boundaries are an act of love for what brings us true peace and lasting satisfaction in life.
Boundaries are being about to say, honestly and lovingly, to yourself or another, what you are OK with and not OK with, in order for you to create your world with your values.
So, what bring us true peace and lasting satisfaction in our lives? What values do we hold dear to our hearts, that we want to live by? Do you thrive when you feel love? Prosperity? Excitement? Security? Freedom? Comfort? Which values are the most important to you? For some guidance, check out amazing list of Core Desired Feelings by one of my most inspiring teachers Danielle Laporte, and try to hone in on which values are the most important to you, now.
We can use our values as a gauge to whether or not our experiences are aligned with our soul's fullness.
And if they don't, we can make the adjustments needed so that nearly all our experiences are creating joy and satisfaction.
In business, there are many boundaries that we must make, and one of the most important of them is PRICE. Your price = your boundary. This is a summary of how much you value yourself and your product, how much you are ready to give and how much do you want your client to show up to receive. Charging too little will build resentment (allowing someone else to overstep your boundaries), and charging too much will create distance (making your boundaries un-crossable by your ideal client).
How to get better at making boundaries:
Get clear on your Life Values, often (they change as time goes on)
In a conflict, ask yourself, How do I really feel? What do I really need or want?
Reflect on your experiences to see if they were in line with your values and your Higher Self.
Before taking action, ask yourself, what would love do?
Remember that you have the power to hold yourself and you're gonna be OK
Share your values and recent boundaries with us, in the comments!
P. S. COMING SOON in Spring 2021 - 💎6 Month Sacred Business Codes Group Coaching Program💎 to uplevel your business so that it's in line with the life you want to live, and the right boundaries and systems in place so that you can freely share your gifts with the world. Email me back if you are interested and stay tuned for more information!